As the holiday season approaches, the pressure to juggle everything seems to multiply overnight. Between the school events, the gift lists, the decorating, and the endless “don’t forgets,” it’s easy to slip into survival mode, where gratitude feels more like another item on the to-do list than something we actually feel.
But here’s the thing: gratitude was never meant to be another task to check off.
It’s meant to be something we live in and that starts with slowing down enough to notice what’s already good.
For many of us, that means redefining what it looks like to “do it all.” Maybe gratitude this year doesn’t look like hosting the perfect dinner or having your house sparkle before guests arrive. Maybe it looks like asking for help when you need it, saying no when your plate is already full, and giving yourself permission to outsource the tasks that drain you.
Because when we try to carry everything ourselves, we leave very little room for joy. But when
we start delegating, when we ask for backup, we make space for what actually matters: being
present, connected, and calm.
Think of it this way:
- Gratitude isn’t just about appreciation — it’s about alignment. Managing your to-do list doesn’t mean doing less, it means doing what truly serves your peace.
- Outsourcing isn’t giving up control — it’s giving yourself permission to breathe.
- Hiring someone to clean, organize, or run errands doesn’t make you lazy; it makes you smart.
- Preparation is power. A little planning ahead and getting help with tasks now instead of at the last minute sets you up for a smoother, more peaceful holiday season.
This year, let gratitude guide how you spend your time. Make room for slow mornings and hot coffee, messy laughter with your kids, and quiet moments that remind you how far you’ve come. The goal isn’t perfection, it’s peace.
Because sometimes, the most grateful thing we can do is admit that we can’t do it all and that’s exactly why The Backup Plan exists.
To remind you that you were never meant to handle everything alone. And that sometimes, the most beautiful way to show gratitude… is to let someone help.
